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An Ode to Original Content

bicycle

i.
We live in a wild new age,
and this frontier
in which we are
cowgirls + boys
is the Internet.

Nobody knows what is possible.

ii.
In this amazing
and limitless space,
some are obsessed
with the idea of
viral.

Hundreds of thousands
of followers
starts to feels
like the norm

It’s not.

iii.
Other folks
stay inside the log cabins
of Facebook and Twitter.
With less and less
original
+ illuminating
content,
they’ve become
play-it-safe dwellings
for posting cute pics
of kittens.

And websites
tell us
in bold headlines
how their recycled stories
will transform our lives.

{When my life is transformed,
I don’t normally need a heads up.}

iv.
I wish to be
both
brave and vulnerable
in this wild frontier.

I want to tell
some stories,
perhaps fictional
but all true.

I want to describe
what it looked like
and felt like
from here.

I hope you will too.
 

On being here now

church

This
{leafy cathedral}
is ten minutes from our apartment
in Japan,
just five minutes
from school.

I’ve been thinking about
this
more often
lately.

I’ve been craving more of
this.

Do you remember
The Little Prince
who set off
to visit
new planets
after his rose
disappointed him.
{As if he never told a lie!}

As a child I imagined
the Little Prince
in red Chuck Taylors
and a cape.
Speeding by planets
as if on a treadmill,
his cape in the air.

I’m pretty sure
that’s not
the image
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
had in mind
but
when you’re a kid,
you think what you think.

In grad school,
when I first learned
to traverse
the internet like space
I became the Little Prince.

{We were not all born
in net-time.}

I regarded with awe
the social media constellations:
facebook,
flickr,
twitter.
I had the power to visit,
to stay a while,
then leave.

And I saw that
the galaxy was amazing.
Vast and infinite.
I explored,
collected data.

Years passed.
The universe expanded,
demanded
to be read, learned, mastered
at warp speed.

An article of interest
led to another
and another
as I jumped.

An afternoon was gone.
Then a day.

Just
a hole
demanding
to be filled
and a worry.
What if I miss something
important
happening over there
while I am over here?

A strange race with my own heart

During my planet-jumping journey,
the bliss
of being witness
to everything
became a burden.

Sweeter things fell away.

That’s no way
for a Little Prince
to live.

I’ve had to
re-think my mission.
I need not be acquainted
with every electronic
star.

I need to be here now.

Here.
On this path
with my gentle man
and his orange knapsack.
I need to be in conversations
about fewer things
at greater depth.

When I was a little girl
my mother
{who also loves to read}
would encourage me
to put down my book.
“Go outside
and play.”

It’s taken
half a lifetime
to understand
what she meant.

My Week of Digital Midfulness

I don’t know about you but I am connected to the internet way too much.

Last Sunday, a week ago today, I had some time to reflect on how I’d been feeling this semester and the news was not good. I’d been staying up too late on weeknights which resulted in almost never getting eight (or even seven) hours of sleep… and the sleep that I had been getting was shallow and fretful. Although I have been blogging and writing a bit over the past few weeks, most of my internet time was spent checking Facebook, Twitter, Flickr and blog stats… flipping through from one tab to another the way that some people flip through television channels to see if anything interesting is on.

Actually, that is exactly the way that I was using the internet. Is there anything interesting and meaningful and relevant for me NOW? How about now? Okay… is there anything now?

Finally, at the end of the evening, I would close my computer and walk to my bedroom to go to bed but the problem was that my heart was still racing. I was all keyed up from several mindless hours online.

I absolutely know this isn’t good for me. Almost daily, I talk with high school students about their internet usage and I help them to develop a better awareness of how they use their time online. We talk about how to achieve greater balance… how to get their work done and to also have online time which is a treat. (Ah… the irony is not lost on me.)

Clearly, I am not anti-internet. So many of my most important social connections and my creative outlets occur online. The wonky bit… the reason that things slipped out of balance… was that I had stopped unplugging between those important bits of connection and creativity. I had absolutely moved into the world of the internet and had become a bit of a junkie.

Here the thing… I am a real live woman and I want to live in the real world.

The first thing I did was to go through my Twitter feed and cull, with very few exceptions, all of the people who were not following me. I felt lighter immediately; the amount of stuff coming at me via Twitter suddenly felt more manageable and relevant. Honestly, I’m still not sure that I have found my tribe on Twitter. Generally speaking, my experience of Twitter is that people are there to sell their own thing and most folks are not reaching out to form communities of like-minded souls. For me, Facebook is a much better online community but I also know almost all of my Facebook friends in the real world.

My second digital mindfulness decision was that during the week of May 14-18 I would not go online before or after the workday. With the exception of my Gratitude 365 project and emails that had to be sent, I would not be online at home. How hard can that be, I thought. As it turns out, it was extremely challenging at first; upon waking each morning, I had to remind myself not to reach for the computer to check my personal and work email. Amazingly, after the first couple of days, I actually began to feel physically better. I slept eight hours or more a night. In just six days, I read two novels, including Holly Thompson’s amazing YA novel Orchards and started a third book. We cooked more meals at home, I watched some television and a movie with DP and I worked on several writing projects.

When it was time to upload my Gratitude 365 photo each day, I’d say to DP, “Okay. I’m uploading my gratitude photo to Flickr now” and he’d nod and smile because I certainly didn’t need his permission… but he knew that I like that level of transparency. By reporting my usage, I was letting him know that I was keeping my Gratitude 365 commitment but also honouring my week-long promise to myself to stay internet-free at home.

At the end of this week, I feel more peaceful. There is less (random, meaningless) junk in my brain and I like how that feels. This evening, I imagine my mind as a vast open space of soft, green grass and blue skies where I can write novels and play more often. The extra sleeps makes me healthier, more energetic and more patient.

This is the beginning of a habit of greater digital mindfulness. This one week has made it much easier for me to snap the lid closed after I have blogged or worked on a writing project for an hour. One week of digital mindfulness has made my off-line, real-world choices seem more obvious and more attractive.

Ultimately, I hope to find a comfortable balance of online and off that allows me to benefit from the best of what the internet has to offer… without disappearing into the (virtual) quicksand.

Update on 20 May 2012:
I found this amazing resource from Learning Fundamentals. Jane created this mind map after reading Leo Babauta’s (free) eBook Focus: A simplicity manifesto in the Age of Distraction.
* Please note that I will not be reading this book today! 🙂
**Click on the image to see a larger copy of the mind map.

What about you? Is this something you struggle with? How do you achieve balance?